m+d=m_0173.jpg

Officially hitched

 

A wedding ceremony that fits you perfectly!

We are your Bay Area Wedding Officiants!

Since 2017, Officially Hitched has provided a suite of wedding ceremony and marriage preparation services:

  • Wedding Ceremony Officiating - Officiating ceremonies and solemnizing marriages throughout the San Francisco Bay Area

  • Officiant Coaching - Wedding Ceremony Officiant Coaching nationwide

  • Couples Coaching - Premarital and Pre-Engagement Coaching nationwide

Check out our websiteβ€”full of resources. And don’t hesitate to reach out to meet your officiant or your coach!

The officially Hitched Team. Lower left Matty Wolka; upper left owner and founder Rachael Tanner; upper right Renesha Westerfield; lower right Mary Lim.

Read reviews from satisfied couples here.


 

packages

Choose the package of services that is right for you!

Click here to download 2024 pricing guide.

 
 

Rachael w/Chelsea & Sean at Old Mill Park

BESPOKE CEREMONY | Weekends $1,488 | Weekdays $1,388

Let Officially Hitched create a bespoke wedding ceremony for you! Your officiant will work with you and your partner to design a ceremony that reflects your union. The most raved-about feature is writing your original love story, the unique signature of your wedding. By your wedding day, everyone will think you and your officiant have been friends for years! Every word of the ceremony is 100% custom written for you!

This package includes:

  • 3 one-hour consultations (virtual)

  • Original Love Story written just for you

  • Research of topics & traditions of interest

  • Original writing and expert editing

  • Officiant attendance at your rehearsal

  • Officiating the Ceremony

  • Solemnizing the Marriage

  • Couple questionnaire

Crowd pleaser! Most raved-about ceremonies! 

Read example Bespoke wedding ceremonies here.

DIY Bespoke $1,188

Want to express YOUR voice in the ceremony? Enjoy the creative process of writing your own love story with your partner while our official takes care of the rest. Read example DIY Bespoke wedding ceremonies here.

 
Annabelle & Yajaira 2019 = Photo Manali Anne Photography

Renesha w/Annabelle & Yajaira 2019 = Photo Manali Anne Photography

MADE TO MEASURE | Weekends $858 | Weekdays $758

Your officiant will customize a ceremony that represents your coupleship. Each element of the ceremony will have been selected based on your desires expressed during a one hour planning consultation. Your officiant will incorporate details of your relationship into the ceremony and deliver the ceremony with warmth and grace. 

This package includes:

  • (1) 1-hour-long consultation + (1) 30-minute check in (virtual)

  • Customized ceremony

  • Inclusion of personal details and anecdotes

  • A selection of special elements to include in your ceremony

  • Officiating the Ceremony

  • Solemnizing the Marriage

  • Couple questionnaire

Read example Made to Measure wedding ceremonies here.

 

Officiant Matty Wolka w/Cianna & Patrick at San Francisco City Hall

READY MADE | Weekends $658 | Weekdays $528

Perfect for couples who want to keep it simple, whether you’re having a traditional ceremony, a wedding at City Hall, or a casual affair. You will choose your preferred script from our library. Then, your officiant will meet with you to review the ceremony and make adjustments. Lastly, your officiant will add a few tailored moments from your couple questionnaire to your ceremony.

This package includes:

  • (1) 1-hour-long consultation (virtual)

  • A selection of ceremonies to choose from

  • Officiating the Ceremony

  • Solemnizing the Marriage

  • Couple questionnaire

  • Tailoring of your wedding ceremony

Read example Ready Made wedding ceremonies here.

 
Adele + Sybil, 2018

Adele + Sybil Jumping the Broom, 2018

SAN FRANCISCO SPECIAL

Weekends $608 | Weekdays $508 | SF City Hall $428 | β€œWalk In” at SF City Hall $328

Choose from a library of scripts for your wedding ceremony. Then meet with your officiant to plan the details and make adjustments.

Ceremony lengths run from 5 minutes to 20 minutes. Great for a wedding of any size from living-room-elopements to ballroom nuptials. Excellent if your goal is to keep it simple!

This package includes:

  • (1) 30 -minute ceremony planning consultation (virtual)

  • A selection of ceremonies to choose from

  • Officiating the Ceremony

  • Solemnizing the Marriage

Read example SF Special wedding ceremonies here.

 

Officiant Mary Lim during COVID

OFFICIANT COACHING $450 | $300 | $200

Are you officiating a wedding for the first time? Have you asked a friend to officiate, but still want professional quality? Work with me to help learn the ropes of wedding officiating and receive guidance on the ceremony creation--and even some help with public speaking.

All activities are held via video conference or phone.

We offer three packages. Read here for more details.

  • Three’s Company - Your coach will help your officiant-in-training craft a unique ceremony and provide wedding stagecraft training to prepare them to officiate. This package features ceremony planning consultation w/the couple and coachee. $450

  • One-on-One - Your coach will work directly with the officiant-in-training providing step-by-step guidance to create the ceremony and stagecraft training. $300

  • Light Touch - For those who need a bit of guidance, access to tools, and a strong copy editor, this package offers light assistance to the officiant-in-training. Ideal for those with some wedding officiating experience. $200

 
Johnalyn + Richard 2018

Rachael w/Johnalyn + Richard 2018

additional costs

MILEAGE - $0.65 cents per mile

$0.65 cents is charged per mile of driving distance for the officiant to get to and from the wedding ceremony and the rehearsal location.  Distance is measured from the officiant's home to the wedding ceremony and rehearsal location.

OVERNIGHT - $300 per night

Officiants typically serve a radius of 70 miles around their homes. Outside of that radius, a lodging fee of at $300 per night is applied.

Last Minute wedding - plus 30%

Book a wedding with less than 72 hours notice incurs a 30% convenience fee.

rehearsal - $100

Add officiant attendance at your rehearsal for just $100 plus mileage. This add-on is subject to officiant availability.

Holiday weekend - plus 30%

Book a wedding on a holiday weekend/adjacent to a holiday incurs a 30% convenience fee. Holidays include MLK day, President’s Day, Cesar Chavez Day, Memorial Day, Independence Day, Labor Day, Indigenous People’s Day, Thanksgiving, Christmas/Christmas Eve, New Year’s Day/ New Year’s Eve

 

 

Contact an Officiant Today!

Click below to learn more about the officiants. | Send a direct message to an officiant of your choice! | Check availability for your date, time, and location.

See our privacy policy regarding your information

Renesha WesterfieldRead my bio.Message me.Schedule a free chat.Photo Credit: Manali Anne Photography

Renesha Westerfield

Read my bio.

Message me.

Check availability.

Photo Credit: Manali Anne Photography

 

Work Samples

If you click here you can view a Google folder of ceremonies.


Rachael officiating for Kara + Lee, Bespoke wine country wedding.

Rachael officiating for Grace & Vineet, a lovely ceremony under the redwoods.

 

 REVIEWS

Read View reviews: in  
Couples love us! See our reviews on The Knot.
 
BOW_DigitalBadge_2021_500x500.png
 
 
BOW_DigitalBadge_2019_500x500.jpg